He is Out of my League

And I quote Andy: It is what it is

"What does that mean?" I replied.

'It doesn't mean anything. it's one of those meaningless phrases people say when they can't justify whatever ridiculous act of self destruction they're about to do next.'

And yet..

there's a question of faith involved when one says 'it is what it is', cause at the end of the day you will hope that things will work out after all the mess that you will cause. ironic but sometimes, God will really let mad things to happen in people's lives to get the lesson spot on and point blank. But it doesn't mean that He love and care for you less, but He let the bad things happen because He has great confidence in you that you will rise from the 'misery' that you brought yourself in.

(Des take on Andy's drama. And that is also why she believe her faith saves.)

A Time for Everything

What does the worker gain from his toil? I have seen the burden God has laid on men. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end. I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his toil—this is the gift of God. I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that men will revere him.

Ecclesiastes 3:9-14